I feel overwhelmed atm. I find myself questioning my relationship a lot. I wish i didnt because he is such a great guy. However a lot of things about him are starting to bother me. One of the things that are bothering me is that he is a slow thinker. It takes him a while to process things, i have to explain things to him a few times before he gets what im saying. Another thing is that he is not very ambitious. I have in a way convinced him to upgrade his job, which he did. He was unhappy at his previous job and has now changed occupations. However this position isnt really any better than the one before, he only settled for this one because it was the first job offered to him. He is conted where he is and i belive if i didnt push him he would still be at his old job and he would be unhappy. He says he likes his current job but he is just able to make ends meet. He lives out of home and shares a house with two other friends. He has no wish to find bigger and better things. I sometimes feel we are two very different people. And other times i blame myself for being so superficial and at times pushy.  I wish he would think about the future and want to purchase his own place so he does not have to rent, to think about investments ect. Another thing that really turned me off was that he told me that he would love to be a stay at home dad while i work. Just because im out finishing my degree, in his oppinion i'll be making a large amount of money and he will stay at home and look after the kids. That is a little bit of a turn off. Some girls might think this is sweet, but i am failing to see that side.