My own version!   Based on this interaction (which is based on the return of yellowsnakepoet to polyamory  , which is lulzy as expected) I am curious as to my flist's take on the question of: Can a person control their feelings/what they feel?  Is it OK to judge someone's feelings as "appropriate" or not?  Obviously my answer is clear in the link, which is colored of course by being an...

Oh noes! My imaginary relationship just had an imaginary breakup! Tell me how I can possibly move on!

I'm thinking that we need a new word (maybe "interdependency"?) to describe a situation where another, specific person IS essential to your emotional happiness and fulfillment, but not in an unhealthy way. Hm, that's a tough one. "Unicorns" is taken. Maybe "leprechauns," or something evocative of a fantasy stemming from an emotional Peter Pan complex, with hints of cat-juggling insanity lurking...

not really a surprise that she thinks it could be like it is in the movies ... her username refers to a character, because she has a crush on the actor who plays him , not on the actual actor nor on the actual composer.

These include stuff from DW, and this will be cross-posted. On DW, responding to trixtah on aquaeri 's journal. They were talking about deliberately arbitrary names for different groups in a discussion , and I got back into larger questions of whether the groups were meaningful, and people taking sides on things, with specific reference to RaceFail but not limited to that: But...

It'll work just like a Woody Allen movie! You're right. Husbands and Wives .

Third time's a charm, right?

Oh my word. It just gets better. No doubt several members of the comm woke up to a PM* this morning (or, if in a different part of the world, came home to one) reading; --- xanaceyhn wrote: > I'm sending this message to everyone who commented on my journal entry in the Polyamory Community titled "I need a little help". > > A lot of people got into mildly heated arguements over something there...

http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/2845456.html?view=57607440&style=mine#t57607440

I'm totally poly --I just don't trust any woman who might want a relationship with my man!"