49 Questions for Grownups Tired of all of those surveys made up by high school kids?! 'Have you ever kissed someone? Missed someone? Told someone you loved them? Drank alcohol? Bah! So instead, here: 49 questions for the people who are a little older! What bill do you hate paying the most? Um... what? Where was the last place you had a romantic dinner? Define "romantic"? I don't think that my...

From tacit , by way of joreth : "If there is someone on your friends list you would like to take, strip naked with, let them tie you to a bed post, have them lick you until you scream, then fuck until both of you are senseless and unable to fuck anymore, then wait about five minutes and do it all over again, post this exact sentence in your journal." There are several people on my...

From the depths of Victorian sexual prudery comes this device, the Lawson's Vaginal Washer, designed to clean the inside of one's vagina by means of a perforated water-spraying tube surrounded by--and I shudder to say this--rotating squeegee scrapers. I can think of about a dozen uses for this in a BDSM context right off the top of my head. Just over half of them involve joreth . That brings...

Via joreth

In Part I of this tale , we wrapped joreth in layers of paper tape with water-soluble glue, for the purpose of creating a cast of her body from which she could make a dressmaker's dummy. That same day, we also created a plaster cast of her body, using plaster bandage strips. The plaster was applied directly over skin, and was considerably messier than the paper tape. The process was a lot...

A couple weekends ago, Shelly and I headed down to Tampa. There were a few reasons for this. Shelly just graduated with her undergraduate degree (yay!) and has a few weeks free before going into grad school. It offered an opportunity to spend time with friends before the move. The new Star Trek opened on the IMAX theater in Tampa. And joreth needed to be covered in papier mache and plaster...

These days I've been working rather a lot more than I'd really prefer to, and been dealing with rather a lot more stress than I might be wanting, so I haven't been sleeping well. When I do sleep well, I rarely remember my dreams, and those I do remember are fairly prosaic, like trying to catch the bus and then realizing as I'm running down the street that I'm in my underwear, that sort of thing. ...

Late last night, joreth arrived in town to visit my cat Liam. Now, she might have thought she was in town for Frolicon this weekend, and I might have thought she was in town for Frolicon this weekend, but fortunately Liam was able to set us straight on that. Liam is a benevolent overlord protector, and magnanimously consented to allow me to curl up with her when we went to bed, though...

First off: I'll be arriving in Philadelphia at somewhere around 2ish in the afternoon tomorrow (Saturday the 28th). joreth won't be arriving 'til about midnightish. That gives me a number of hours unallocated and unspoken for, though I won't have transportation. Anyone in the area fancy a get-together? Second off: The posters of the Map of Human Sexuality are printed and en-route. Funny...

Part the first: I will be in Philadelphia for the Poly Leadership Summit from February 28 through March 6. Originally, I'd coordinated with my sweetie joreth , but scheduling conflicts have kind of nixed that. So long story short, I'll be in Philadelphia on February 28 with nothing to do. Anyone on my flist in town and want to hook up for coffee 1 or something? Part the second: Almost...