We all want to find our soul mate. Have you ever thought about the fact that sometimes we try too hard. We are always chasing something online instead of relaxing and just letting it happen. On the other hand, sometimes whatever you do it still doesn't work out.

/>Relationships are extremely complex and very seldom do people really connect in a way that is totally satisfying. It seems as though if we are attracted to the person physically and enjoy their company it is not reciprocated. Why is this?

When we show our cards too early on people lose interest. This goes for men and women. There has to be a balance. The delemna is when to open yourself up to your mate. Many times you wait for months and then still face rejection when you reveal your feelings.

Free online dating is always a gamble and juggling act. The best thing to guard against a broken heart is to reserve your emotions and date more than one person until you are sure of your match's intentions. By seeing more than one person you don't revolve your life around one person and it makes you less prone to clinginess and disappointment. When you are busy and not always available you become more desirable.

Always remember that you are special and have a lot to give someone. If the person you are interested in does not appreciate it, there are plenty of people that will.

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