Reality Check

Do I have a huge target on my ass that says "Loser Magnet"?   OK, that may sound like a weird question, but I was "relationshiped" for so long that I'm not sure anymore if it's normal or just me.  I keep getting hit on by the majorly fucked up - especially "will you be my Mommy because I'm an irresponsible lazy fuck."  It's getting depressing.  Not so much because I have a burning urge to be ...