2008 Round-up

... a certain kitty cat , and the flat being invaded by an internet cookery show . It ended with possibly the most hectic Beltane I've ever been in, but one in which I got handfasted to galaxy_girl00 . W00t! In May I finally finished my dissertation , and then proceeded to collapse into a quivering mass of relief. In June I successfully defended that dissertation , and suffered a ...

Wow It's Been 4ever...

...i don't really have much of that, at least by blood that is..) and if continued my job... This is a hard transition but it's doable....I miss you guys  back in Cali. and can't wait to be back...oh and BTW  I know it's late but Happy Yule...Hope you had a great and blessed one...And congrats to the newly handfasted!!! :) Love you guys! Stack p.s email me some time...I don't bite to hard..lol :P

WTF

... 8 years is a long time.  I've done more thinking on this and feel the need to add that if you take out the time I was handfasted I have dated for 4 years total.  You know, really I think I dated 2 people.  Being handfasted hardly counts as dating.  We never really "went out" we went from friends to handfasted.  

... of my kindness, and that sucks. I've been bearing the financial burden for the two of us for almost six years. I've had to claim him as a dependent on my taxes. I'm not legally married to him, just handfasted. He's still going through a messy divorce. Will I marry him? I doubt it. This deadbeat sh*t is not working for me. I have feelings of love for him, but I also resent him, and who can blame ...

Keyboard Fuzz, Massages, Gaming, Night Huntress Postcards, & Reader Questions about my Husband

...term for a couple uniting either in marriage or a confirmed commitment.  The "will you join with me" part also konfoozled me a little.  I asked, "Are you asking me to marry you?  Or do you want to get handfasted?  Or what?" He said, "Both.  Either.  I just know I want to spend the rest of my life with you." Now mind you, according to him, he was expecting me to say, "No, Sam, we've only been...

Recovering Toncho

... alights across his brow, pushing downward.   “Your debt?   Toncho, after all this time you still felt you owed us something?   You’ve labored here for more than three turns now.   You’ve handfasted here, raised your son here, and personally raised the quality of our runnerstock.   You even helped keep Mother safe from those ruffians that time.   There’s no debt we’re keeping account of.”  ...

... don't know how he found his way back. Ferrets don't have a lot of survival skills. But I am soooo happy he came back. I kept thinking how Jeremy would never forgive me and wouldn't want to get handfasted anymore. I still expect Jeremy to be mad but him coming back helps I think. I am so glad I didn't go to Drum Circle because then I probably wouldn't have realized he was gone or seen him coming ...

Family drama

...has to say about that. Lilly reaches out to hit Lzi's shoulder again. "I'm just kidding mommy. I'll have twenty. That's it. And we'll play house all day. And dollies. And I'll get handfasted to Trist and we can live together. And Linnie can live with us cause she's his sister." Whoawhoawhoa. That pulls Lzi out of her stupor. "You plan on getting handfastened to /Tristan/?" Meaning Lzi and N'ano ...