The Bachelor Deliberate Gentle Sex Master ( DGSM ) Straight-up. Studly. Congratulations, you are The Bachelor . You're an honest, good-thinking guy, and though you're very sexually active, people don't perceive you as a male-slut or man-whore or guy-dick-putter-inner or whatever. You have a sterling reputation. You're a careful person, perhaps too much so for your friends' ...