(Possibly OT)Half a rant, half a question...

I'd like to start this off by introducing myself, (although some of you may know me already) but I am a young chub4chub and gainer in NYC.  I am 19 years of age, I'd like to think I'm at least moderately intelligent and as mature as I need to be at this point in time. I'm posting this because on a number of occasions, well, a lot of guys in this community (Not Gainers, the gainer and even bear ...